Make distinctive ROCm TE wheels names

[ipanfilo]

Description

Use wheel package names for ROCm TE that are uniq and do not match CUDA TE ones.

Fixes #15360

Type of change

• Documentation change (change only to the documentation, either a fix or a new content)
• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Infra/Build change
• Code refactoring

Changes

Please list the changes introduced in this PR:

• Rename transformer_engine_(torch|jax) to transformer_engine_rocm_(torch|jax)
• Make transformer_engine_rocm independent, i.e it can install and work w/o transformer_engine metapackage
• Add configuration parameters to build_wheels.sh

Checklist:

• I have read and followed the contributing guidelines
• The functionality is complete
• I have commented my code, particularly in hard-to-understand areas
• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• My changes generate no new warnings
• I have added tests that prove my fix is effective or that my feature works
• New and existing unit tests pass locally with my changes

[wenchenvincent]

If we use an AMD pypi repo to host the wheels, do we still need the package name changes?

[ipanfilo]

If we use an AMD pypi repo to host the wheels, do we still need the package name changes?
Yes, unless we disable using default PyPi index at all