Update release action

[jqtrde]

This PR:

• Updates action.yaml to use python -m build, which is necessary now that we've moved from setup.py to pyproject.
• Bumps the Python version used in action.yaml to 3.11. (3.10 is the minimum we're supporting)
• Adds a test extra so that we can still pip install -e .[test]

[jqtrde]

Tested this locally with:

# mimic the release environment
$ mise use [email protected]
$ rm -rf dist .build-venv
$ python -m venv .build-venv
$ source .build-venv/bin/activate.fish
$ python -m pip install --upgrade pip setuptools
$ python -m pip install build twine wheel

# wheel builds
$ python -m build --sdist --wheel
...
removing build/bdist.macosx-11.0-arm64/wheel
Successfully built mapbox_tilesets-2.0.0.tar.gz and mapbox_tilesets-2.0.0-py3-none-any.whl

# twine is happy
$ python -m twine check dist/*
Checking dist/mapbox_tilesets-2.0.0-py3-none-any.whl: PASSED
Checking dist/mapbox_tilesets-2.0.0.tar.gz: PASSED
$ deactivate

# install what was built
$ rm -rf venv
$ python -m venv venv
$ source venv/bin/activate.fish
$ pip install dist/*.tar.gz
Successfully built mapbox-tilesets

# confirm install works
$ tilesets --version
2.0.0