Parallelise and merge ci jobs, make sure rust dependencies are shared everywhere

[robert3005]

Leverage github's parallel steps to speed up our CI, merge steps where majority
of time was compilation

[codspeed-hq]

Merging this PR will degrade performance by 21.28%

⚠️ Unknown Walltime execution environment detected

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⚠️ Different runtime environments detected

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⚡ 1 improved benchmark
❌ 2 regressed benchmarks
✅ 268 untouched benchmarks
⏩ 2144 skipped benchmarks¹

Warning

Please fix the performance issues or acknowledge them on CodSpeed.

Performance Changes

	Mode	Benchmark	BASE	HEAD	Efficiency
❌	WallTime	dict_canonicalize_gt_u8_avx2[16000000]	7.2 ms	11.8 ms	-39.17%
❌	WallTime	arrow_checked_add_u32_neon[16384]	13.4 µs	20.3 µs	-33.91%
⚡	WallTime	arrow_checked_add_u32_avx2[16384]	21.4 µs	17.6 µs	+21.35%

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Footnotes

1. 2144 benchmarks were skipped, so the baseline results were used instead. If they were deleted from the codebase, click here and archive them to remove them from the performance reports. ↩

[joseph-isaacs]

Why are there new benchmarks?

[robert3005]

Probably because they're in between merge base of this pr and develop. If we rebase they should go away